Comments on: Porn Part 2: The High School Years

By: Rage Against the Manchine’s Series on Pornography « AntiPorn101

Rage Against the Manchine’s Series on Pornography « AntiPorn101 — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 15:36:44 +0000

[...] Porn Part Two: The High School Years [...]

By: Immir

Immir — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 00:06:54 +0000

People forget that young girls want to get laid, too. It’s a major head fuck when you come into contact with pornography as a young female. Actually, how women get treated in our culture is confusing- women are SEXUALIZED but NOT SEXUAL.

And if you do mimick how our culture depicts females, then you are a ‘slut’ and you’re ‘stupid’ and ‘you’re not using your head’.
Example: Don’t wear revealing clothes because you’ll come across as an attention seeking ho.
Do any boys get told before they go out to not be an attention GIVING ho?

Double standards everywhere you look, and always awful consequences and no freedom. Our culture is twisting girls inside and shaping them to be something far from the reality of what they actually are…

By: isme

isme — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 09:50:57 +0000

Yeah…it’s bizarre how people who aren’t celibate use sex related swear words.

…

I just caught myself about to say “WTF?” :(

By: Imaginary

Imaginary — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 06:41:14 +0000

Not that I have anything against the word, but someone saying that they “fucked” someone else just lends that edge of disgust to the former someone’s voice.

By: karinova

karinova — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 00:07:10 +0000

Wow.
I knew all of this already, but I don’t think it gets any more crystallized than that 15-year-old boy’s summary of his “relationship problems.”
Jesus.

He likes her; she likes him. The urge to express this like via sex is quite possibly the most natural thing on Earth. However, the sex he’s no doubt familiar with– pornsex– says: sex is not generally something you do to (note, not “with) someone you like. In pornsex, women are like toiletpaper— you don’t use it because you have tender feelings for it; you use it because you physically have to, and then you get as far from it as possible. So if your girlfriend lets you treat her like toiletpaper… well. That’s confusing.

On some level, he either a) groks that women don’t REALLY want to be treated as a collection of holes, or b) is experiencing major cognitive dissonance at the idea that he is (as far as he knows) expected to treat someone he likes like crap.

By: undercover punk

undercover punk — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 14:07:50 +0000

I’m late to the game here, but I totally LOVE IT! Love it!!

The disconnect is so real, and yet so *invisible*! We gotta keep talking about it.

By: Rian

Rian — Mon, 19 Jan 2009 20:51:27 +0000

There was an article in The Mail last week about porn education in schools. I know a lot of people turn to porn for sex education (heck, a lot of people are instructed to do so by "sexperts"), and I'd like to think that real how-to videos/multimedia could fulfill that demand and be produced without being porntastic. However, I don't hold much hope that it would actually reduce porn consumption as porn and sex are always about so much more than sex and even the desire to be good in bed is itself largely a product of porn culture.

By: Maggie Hays

Maggie Hays — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 01:45:44 +0000

Well, what you wrote here is a very elaborate & heart-felt piece on the woman-hating propaganda that pornography actually is, Nine, and how it affects society. :)

Two thumbs up!

By: pornography is anti-woman propaganda. « mmm, brains!

pornography is anti-woman propaganda. « mmm, brains! — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:50:47 +0000

[...] Porn Part 2: The High School Years Boys raised on porn don’t know what to do with a real female partner, so early sexual experiences are usually at least very disappointing, and likely uncomfortable and worrisome, for girls. Boys come to their first sexual experiences hoping that the girls they have sex with will duplicate the behavior of women paid to allow men to use their bodies, and girls come to their first sexual experiences hoping to be romanced and treated gently and carefully. They want sex and love to coexist, as it should, and are shocked when boys they liked enough to have sex with seem to develop hostile feelings toward them after they sleep together. [...]

By: chlorophyll

chlorophyll — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 21:56:48 +0000

Hmmm well, I’m not an exception when I say that at around middle school I developed a taste for sneaking glances at internet porn. I’m a girl. I was aroused by the fact that I was seeing naked people having sex, but it never hit me until recently how porn is such an accepted and ingrained medium in male culture. I shave my legs, pits, and pubic region because boys grew up looking at pornstars with Brazilian bikini waxes and would consider anything otherwise to be an abnormality. I think that sexual trends in the personal lives of a population directly mirror the trends in the current pornography. Anal was never something consenting hetero couples wanted to do until it became hot shit in porn. The rise of amateur porno sites has also created even more unrealistic expectations of what a girl’s body should look like, because now the male mentality seems to be: “Well, she’s a real person like you and she looks like that and will do that; why don’t you?”